Sometimes School Sucks, But Thanks Mom & Dad
Recently I had to re-establish a hard boundary with one of my brood. It hasn't been easy or pleasant, nor do I expect it to be moving forward. However, as I have wryly observed before, parenting is not for sissies. I am not going to go into the story here because I am just don't have the bandwidth nor the energy at the moment, and to be uncomfortably transparent, I'm still not sure I'm handling the situation appropriately and I'm still muddling my way through, as so many of us do.
This latest …
How to Boost a College App Over the Summer
We field variations on the following questions ALL OF THE TIME: "What's the best way my teen can spend their time over the summer?" and "What activities will help my student boost their application?"
In this short video, I share one of my favorite go-to services offered by Give3600. Teens are paired with a volunteer opportunity that aligns with their interests, whether they have two weeks or ten months. The Give3600 College Application Spotlight package is reasonably priced at ab…
Takeaways from the 2021 Admissions Cycle
I recently participated in a Clubhouse chat with 125 of my esteemed admissions coaching colleagues across the country. Going full wonk talking about admissions is what we like to do best.
"What the Heck Just Happened?" was the way one of my colleagues so aptly described this past admissions cycle during the open chat.
Here are the things I heard repeated by multiple consultant and coaches:
- This year's decisions were the most unpredictable they had ever seen.
- The number of applications t…
NEW! Now Available: Test Prep & Tutoring Services
One of the most frequent questions I'm asked by parents and students alike is: "What do you recommend for test prep?" Another repeat question is: "Does 'test optional' really mean 'optional'?"
The data shows that students who submit test scores earn admission at higher rates than those who don't. Additionally, merit aid at many schools is directly tied to test scores.
Further, according to NACAC's most recent annual report, of all the factors that admissions officers take into account, GPA i…
Can We Just Take a Hot Second and Talk About the Admissions Timeline?
Can we just take a hot second and talk about time? As in, timelines and everything that needs to get done when you have a budding college applicant in the house.
Our third, Aaron, is a high school junior. I just booked his first official college visit that is not virtual! I was so excited by this accomplishment that I sent a screenshot of the confirmation to the family group chat. (I usually ONLY send pictures of Aspen, Buxy, and Bella because I'm the crazy dog lady in our tribe.)
You may —…
The Number One Thing You Need to Discuss with Your Teen
We've been so busy here readying to launch our new website (woo-hoo!) that I realized that it had been two weeks since we last connected. Today is a quick post about the number one thing to discuss with your teen (regardless of where they are in the process).
There are two lenses through which teens can view admissions.
The first is that an acceptance from FabulousU will:
- validate that I am smart, accomplished, worthy, and this will ensure my highest potential will be reached.
The Battle I Won But Lost Anyway
In the summer of 2005, we were renovating our home. One of the countless decisions that had to be made amidst the chaos of that project was whether or not to add a cable hook up in each of the three children's bedrooms. As a family, we had cable and we were keeping cable, but in my mind, hooking up the kids' rooms was a non-starter: "NO WAY! They'll be hiding in their rooms, by themselves, not learning how to negotiate the remote to decide between The Dukes of Hazard and The Six Million Dollar M…
Does "Test-Optional" REALLY Mean Optional?
MOST parents and students I speak with LOATHE standardized testing. Feelings aside, most still have questions about how to navigate this portion of the ad…
Happy New Year! Here's to Finding More Sweet in 2021
Receiving Christmas and Holiday greeting cards this year brought me significantly more pleasure than in years past. No one was more surprised than I was by my feelings of authentic delight when the first card arrived, nevermind that it was from Chewy.com! I even put it on display, tucking it under a window frame where everyone would see it – “everyone” being my immediate family since no one else was coming – and I made sure to point out to each of them the very FIRST greeting of the SEASON (cue …
The Essential Self and Right Fit
What Do the Essential Self and the Right Fit Have in Common?
The short answer: Everything.
The long answer is, well, longer than that, but we think it’s worth reading about, thinking about, and considering seriously.
Sociologist Martha Beck proposes that each of us has two selves that form the basis of our operations: a “social self” and an “essential self.” In Finding Your Own North Star, Beck lists the behaviors of these selves: The “social self” is avoidance-based, conforming, imitative, …